{"id":1073,"date":"2024-05-01T13:53:06","date_gmt":"2024-05-01T17:53:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/?p=1073"},"modified":"2024-05-01T13:53:06","modified_gmt":"2024-05-01T17:53:06","slug":"blog-friction-and-learning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/featured\/blog-friction-and-learning\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog: Friction and Learning"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">by Sarah Rose Cavanagh, April 22, 2024<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sarahrosecav.substack.com\/p\/in-defense-of-friction\">Link to blog<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"677\" src=\"https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/510\/2024\/05\/image-1024x677.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1074\" srcset=\"https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/510\/2024\/05\/image-1024x677.png 1024w, https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/510\/2024\/05\/image-300x198.png 300w, https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/510\/2024\/05\/image-768x508.png 768w, https:\/\/courses.bowdoin.edu\/baldwin-clt-teaching-times\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/510\/2024\/05\/image.png 1456w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friction gets a bad rap. It calls to mind furry felines petted in the wrong direction, relationships hitting the skids, and small inconveniences that get under our skin. Indeed, \u201cfriction\u201d is a term psychologists use to describe small impediments that have outsize influence on our tendency to engage in desired behaviors \u2014 for instance, bad weather or long polling lines\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F7270a88c-18d3-42d5-b826-27c91d58b655%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258844259%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=ge5x8pp0eGaeRNDNsYQwDMhDc6BrH1y%2BQipnYKHx62Y%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">predicting whether or not we turn out to vote<\/a>\u00a0more than our values or intentions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friction can be bad. But can friction also be good? Let\u2019s take a look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friction might not only be helpful for learning, it might be essential. As students\u2014and as teachers\u2014we desire smoothness, ease. It feels great when we teach a lesson, the students seamlessly and without much effort understand, we assess their understanding, and voila! Looks like they have learned!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But have they?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">True learning involves changing how you see the world, adjusting your knowledge schemas to incorporate something entirely new. Such adjustments usually follow a challenge, a wrestling, a grappling. An entire body of literature on the<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F5833812a-f954-4833-be1c-ecb78fdd3c03%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258858796%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=OmSuwuNWhcUnjo5CGgFY0oJe5z7zA5uqWGfm9ltzSe4%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&nbsp;illusion of fluency<\/a>&nbsp;demonstrates that usually, when learning feels fluid and easy, no real learning has taken place. When everything is instantly perceptible, we either knew it already or we\u2019re just riding the cognitive coattails of the person delivering the information\u2014it feels like we understand because their delivery is polished, but it is a surface experience. Our brains are unchanged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We\u2019ve got to get all tangled up in it and work our way out to truly learn\u2014and we\u2019re going to be most successful in doing so if we can not only tolerate but actually learn to&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F408c5a45-daef-4037-bc96-7da9ecd30b21%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258864636%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=aWKedHAw2xuNqpR%2B15pQ2UWw%2BL8OTqsC4lpNRkXnWck%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">enjoy<\/a><\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F408c5a45-daef-4037-bc96-7da9ecd30b21%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258870375%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=RnkPIS2eQkhCQjRzwvmiu1BTvsdIH%2Fsxp3Us8RAXfE8%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&nbsp;that vexing feeling&nbsp;<\/a>of the cognitive struggle, of that uncertainty. \u201cThat is literally how science works,\u201d Dave Cormier writes in his (excellent) recent book&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F06ee3be1-6e92-4adc-83a3-2f0300502f71%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258876066%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=6BkKLDfAyExTgLwgiqKxcmCJA6oL4WQLP%2Bl2ufjHDyk%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Learning in a Time of Abundance<\/a>. \u201c<\/em>We move, hopefully, toward less uncertainty, or at least, to a better-explained uncertainty.\u201d But we never can be entirely certain. This is why scientists so often lose battles against conspiracy theories and anti-scientific movements\u2014we\u2019re incapable of making truly definitive statements due to the nature of the scientific process and perspective, whereas those peddling misinformation are all too happy to do so.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So learning requires a bit of friction, and students may be assisted by working through some&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2Ffd798488-3ad4-4dc6-b297-3c0632110a82%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258897749%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=G%2Ba6UELa1RcrAhAgAe4P6j8E13Eqx%2F3%2BjSxlMVlpCKk%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">productive confusion.<\/a>&nbsp;What about those of us working to shape the overall trajectory of learning and change in higher education? Creating friction may be part of our responsibility to shape an educational world we want to live in, what psychologist and educational developer&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F5d2cc17b-82f0-4faf-a18e-8b49a2dd9cba%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258903218%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=zst7jANXu3E%2FLUjbwu4wigIUDrz12FHCA9RW0T9ETa8%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Lindsay Masland<\/a>&nbsp;characterized&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2Fd71fd4b3-e7a5-406c-a88f-00a8ab53fdf4%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258908474%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=PdyocMPb0tbt5swTtmFo3MObKvw2HdhjCrEBDJlFI30%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">in a recent talk<\/a>&nbsp;as tossing some sand in the gears. In&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F44095a8b-0c95-46cf-95d1-1827180ab980%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258913743%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=oy6ULWl33nmQDOYjKQIrjgMiRDv9FnDa%2BWDWxB1C5Uk%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">another recent powerful talk<\/a>&nbsp;based on his&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F1bf7404b-b8e9-4825-9c82-120f9efcda44%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258918920%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=8HdHhdrSP3WvDuud3d34YZ03kcHMC%2B4in7O2VsmTwrs%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">almost-in-our-greedy-paws book<\/a>, writer and educator Joshua Eyler challenged those academics in positions of privilege to have the courage to enact change, to create some friction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F7b40abe4-443d-4172-805a-189c5791bc16%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258924135%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=KbumWvFPmhgMq6YbkTgmE4e%2FriNjNC6Pxz2qM%2BSkP9U%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">check out my last newsletter<\/a>&nbsp;for some intriguing thoughts from educator Sarah Silverman about \u201caccess friction\u201d \u2014 when accessibility needs of students (and sometimes their instructors) are in conflict with each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Friction is everywhere I look these days.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One way of reducing friction is taking things online that used to be offline, logging in from the comfort of your own home. For instance, a telehealth appointment to check on your ongoing struggles to control your blood pressure means that you don\u2019t have to find the time in your schedule to travel to your doctor, fight with parking, wait in line to check in at the front desk, wait again for your appointment to begin\u2026. and so on. Telehealth opens doors to treatment for people who may have difficulty leaving their homes for reasons of disability, childcare, or lack of transportation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But is it always the best option for everyone?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F5257f4c3-8be2-4353-920c-6d4337dca810%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258929280%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=jV06Gg5w%2B9H0VxdlFecKnZTyiYXj6gaPYDCH3LGxQYw%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">A recent article<\/a>&nbsp;considers that many residential colleges and universities, overwhelmed by the demand for mental health services on campus and unable to meet them through their counseling centers, have turned to external companies providing tele-mental health care.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The article does a good job of investigating the conflicting benefits and drawbacks about this situation. On the one hand, more students are accessing care, and at faster and more frequent rates than their in-person counseling centers could handle. It also offers much greater availability of counselors who share various identity-based characteristics like race, gender, or sexuality\u2014on most campuses, college counselors tend to predominantly be white cisgender women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the other hand, utilizing external companies means little oversight over quality of services. More important for our considerations of friction, the ease of logging onto therapy from one\u2019s dorm room means that students who may already have been isolating themselves for reasons of mental health struggles don\u2019t have to leave their dorms to physically visit a counseling center, interact with the staff in the office, and meet in person with their therapist. They also don\u2019t meet with a person who has real, deep connections to the institution the student attends, someone who can connect the student with other local resources, and who often have extensive context on the curriculum and the student body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Picking up your phone and receiving instant feedback from someone has its appeal. But mental health care that is embedded in your community may be more powerful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Speaking of not leaving your dorm, what happens when the dorms we build increasingly value privacy over the friction of frequent social encounters?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a fascinating research study&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2Fe5b8731d-93a4-44e4-88ff-aa7ac2c93b26%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258940488%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=pqySPc1try6jX%2FVlbmEzXsNMO%2F%2FOsT7PVkAbYji4aGQ%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">I first learned about<\/a>&nbsp;on the always-entertaining podcast&nbsp;<em>Tea for Teaching,&nbsp;<\/em>a research team noted a trend over time toward increasing levels of privacy in dorms. More and more students requesting private rooms, fewer roommates, fewer shared spaces and more spaces for individual quiet time. Reducing large communal bathrooms and creating more quads and singles means many fewer social encounters over a day. What effect might all of this separate space have on their well-being and satisfaction with the college experience?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The authors of&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F877f5b9e-72d5-4444-b298-3c71aee2092d%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258961283%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=X0U74diKiQ1u4dFZwm1VGSJMiKROhXNHC74D0G0bnXI%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">this research study<\/a>&nbsp;examine the architectural plans of residences in 22 universities in a large North American urban center and confirm their hypotheses\u2014that over time, dormitories have changed from large mixed spaces with frequent opportunities for \u201cpassive encounters\u201d with social others to increased privacy and reduced shared spaces. They conclude that this move toward greater privacy \u201cmay have the effect of improving residential satisfaction without considering the potential consequences on student socialization and community involvement, and thus academic performance and well-being.\u201d Less friction, but potentially less well-being. One imagines that exploring this hypothesis is the next step of this research team\u2014I eagerly await their findings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This newsletter has been highly focused on education and institutions of higher learning. But what about the role of friction in our social lives?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Turns out, here too reducing friction can have a paradoxical effect on positive emotions and satisfaction. In his book<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F05ca78d0-4626-47b0-a8e6-336506d72b92%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258966417%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=PKOJISH1Y%2F7ih%2Fk1SbKxBQE2TnmrafiTyUg8qAWhTfQ%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">&nbsp;<\/a><em><a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F05ca78d0-4626-47b0-a8e6-336506d72b92%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258971606%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=aDudXFiue9yYiiRjPTNu4EJkNowI8pZY78I6XXloJe8%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Four Thousand Weeks<\/a>,&nbsp;<\/em>Oliver Burkeman considers all of the modern inventions designed to reduce friction (home delivery, telehealth appointments, automated banking) and expresses skepticism that they actually make life more pleasurable. \u201c[S]moothness, it turns out, is a dubious virtue,\u201d he writes, \u201csince it\u2019s often the unsmoothed textures of life that make it livable, helping nurture the relationships that are crucial for mental and physical health, and for the resilience of our communities.\u201d Social psychologists call these regular interactions with our fellow community-dwellers \u201cloose ties,\u201d and they are indeed pivotal for happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I felt this less-friction\/less-happiness paradox keenly in my experiences with our community supported agriculture program over the last five years (through the wonderful&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F7ea41fc0-4d26-4d98-b64f-b881dc8c85fa%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258981902%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=WkHCho02ARTK05hYUnXtt89Xf48bbrt0VbL8%2BI0klaY%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Red Fire Farm<\/a>, MA residents take note). In the original formulation, I\u2019d pick up our vegetables by driving to our most local delivery spot, sorting through bins of veggies, weighing the produce, and placing them in my own reusable bags. The air was always full of the smell of dill and fennel, my hands catching dirt from the freshly pulled carrots and caressing the smooth roundness of the tomatoes. The same warm, freckled, broad-smiled farm hand would be there chatting idly with the other CSA members. I\u2019m too introverted for such small talk but she and I would exchange a sparkly hello that I eagerly anticipated each week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The pandemic years first transitioned this social sensory exchange into a quick handoff of a full box (no weighing, sniffing, squeezing), squinty smiles through masks. Last year they introduced home delivery, an opportunity I made the mistake of leaping at. It was a year of finding a box sitting on my doorstep, no human or vegetable interaction at all, and returning to my email inbox within moments. It was a loss. I\u2019m returning to pick-ups this summer season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In another loss,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com\/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack.com%2Fredirect%2F320af211-f389-4bd9-8e3b-17fb17b899c8%3Fj%3DeyJ1Ijoia2o5dHcifQ.hF1TJyUNpWNxLTQvk8HrT9_7NaqBmuEvZiolOpalnFE&amp;data=05%7C02%7Ckbyrnes%40bowdoin.edu%7C578faafa61d442238e2a08dc62baef04%7C984e32e5f98a4600aa3227c3f948abe3%7C1%7C0%7C638493802258986810%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=tSW2dN2UclaTv%2BBRonWnUuMV4AsIvsO1t9iT5hbaTCI%3D&amp;reserved=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">a recent essay in The Atlantic&nbsp;<\/a>considers the costs of the great migration of courting to dating apps, the ease at which you can slide into a comfortable relationship with a compatible partner which often lacks the tumult, uncertainty, and friction of instead crashing into love with someone who might be full of intriguing contrasts that relentlessly circle your mind around the clock.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s not sand life down until there is no friction left.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s embrace it instead\u2014in the classroom, in our careers, in our living arrangements, in our love lives.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Sarah Rose Cavanagh, April 22, 2024 Link to blog Friction gets a bad rap. It calls to mind furry felines petted in the wrong direction, relationships hitting the skids, and small inconveniences that get under our skin. 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