A neighborhood, originally safe haven for queer men has now became a booming entertainment district that “…sells straight women a gay lifestyle of fun fashionable drinks in stylish surroundings… offers a place for women to escape straight clubs’ ever-present possibility of violence” (ORNE 23). However, this disneyfication of Boystown as a playground, has led to the transformation of spaces and has led to the rise in heterosexual women appropriating bars and social apps designed to meet the needs of gay men in the Gayborhood.
Orne describes how heterosexual women on safari in the gayborhood have a “tourist gaze” and expect gay men to become their gay best friend for the night and for a specific set of events to occur for it to be considered an authentic experience. This is especially true when a woman used the Hole as a space to stare at the gay men having sexual encounters, rather than respecting and appreciating the purpose of the space. Specifically, Orne writes, “… so she walked over and stuck her head in, again giggling at what was happening inside. Marcus came over and explained the area was for sex. If she wasn’t going to be having sex, she shouldn’t go back. Five minutes later, she was at it again, poking her head around the corner. Marcus, ever patient with customers even he could be stern, told her to stay out” (ORNE 31).
This quote prompted my question which asked if there is a way for sexiness and sexual intimacy to be reintegrated into the community undisturbed. We touched on how the gayborhoods are projecting watered down versions of themselves to accommodate for the rise of non-queer people occupying queer spaces. For instance, originally a day to celebrate the anniversary of the Stonewall riots, pride day has become a day when heterosexual men and women take part in the festivities, because it is the “cool” thing to do. Heterosexual couples even bring their children which results in the sanitation of sex from the original sexy culture in Boystown. This is one of the main drawbacks of a postmodern urban society, because the space utilized is taken for granted and turned into a spectacle by those who the space wasn’t intended for.
Throughout the text, Orne suggest that the original safe space provided by Boystown can only be rehabilitated through sex and sexual intimacy-without it, Boystown would be lost. This led to my question of it being impossible to reintegrate sexiness now that heterosexual women on safari have become interwoven into the culture of Boystown. In the class discussion, I wanted to focus on the idea of reintegrating sexiness into the community even though heterosexual women currently have a strong market relationship in Boystown. One option is to completely ban women from entering these spaces, however, it is illegal to ban a group of people unless there is a clear and violent threat. Also, Boystown relies on the huge economic presence of the women, as they throw bachelorette and birthday parties and convene there for fun nights with friends and to socialize with others.