In this section of the novel there is much to discuss about Alexandra’s opinions on marriage and  societal norms. Upon her confrontation with Lou, Oscar and ‘everyone’, Alexandra is left to deal with her own emotions regarding Carl and their future. Several questions arose from this reading for me: Is it sexism or age-ism or both that motivate Lou’s and Oscar’s opinions? Is Alexandra’s sudden development of feelings for Carl genuine, or is it an act of defiance in response to her brothers beliefs that this is the one thing that she cannot do? Are the marriages and couples portrayed in this novel a result of love or convenience and societal expectation?